I vividly remember ringing in the New Year on the streets of Arima in Trinidad, watching the distant fireworks over the Savannah and shouting Happy New Year. I went up to the attic to get a better view of the firework show, exuberant and full of life after 2019 was such a successful one for me. I graduated with my medical degree debt-free, had been working for six months by that point, was on leave since Christmas Eve and used it to take a trip to Trinidad. I’d had a lot of lovely experiences in 2019 too– moved out on my own, went ziplining, parasailing and stayed at an all-inclusive hotel for the first time, just to name a few, and I was eagerly looking forward to what lay in store for me in 2020.

Well, five months of the year are almost down and I can’t say I’ve done anything I’d planned for 2020. In fact, I can’t tell you what I’ve done with my life for the last two months in particular besides attend work daily, pull all-nighters when on call every two or three nights and look forward to a free weekend to do nothing but perhaps laundry, cook or visit my immediate family and boyfriend. I’m a homebody so staying at home for several days at a time isn’t a problem, but after two months I’ll be honest. I’m tired. I need a break from my routine. I try to be optimistic and cheerful, and I’ve been drinking new wines and experimenting in my kitchen since, but I’m tired of having to try. I want to get my groceries without anxiety, I want a night out with my friends and I want new adventures. So much for my goal of a new waterfall each month.
This post is a little rant if you haven’t already realized from the title. Here are five terms I don’t want to hear anymore, and certainly not after 2020.

- Quarantine–This word will likely go down as the most used word of 2020, and I’m not pleased about it.
- New Normal— New normal? NEW NORMAL? Really? ☹ I mean, I get it. We’re figuring this pandemic out as we go along because we’ve never experienced anything like this before. I can’t think of a single country which hasn’t been affected by this novel coronavirus, and the effects will be felt for years after the last infected patient recovers, both economically and otherwise. Doesn’t that give you some level of anxiety if you allow yourself to think about it? It’s as if life wasn’t already unpredictable enough. I hope better hygiene and sanitary practices are apart of this new normal though. That’s possibly one good thing which can come from this.

- Social Distancing— I’m tired of isolating myself from the people I love, and feeling guilty knowing that any time I interact with them I may potentially be exposing them to the virus, even though I take great care to wear my PPEs, pay better attention to hand hygiene, clean my commonly touched surfaces frequently and I’m not working on a ward with confirmed patients. I want to go to the beach and explore new waterfalls too without feeling like this unnecessary trip may bring me in contact with an infected person. I also didn’t realize I was a hugger until this recommendation to keep six feet apart from everyone. I also hate that I cringe on the inside when my babies (ehm.. paediatric patients) run up to me and give me hugs or sit in my lap at work, so for 2021, we’re not bringing this term forward.

- Flatten the Curve— Again, we’re just leaving this term right here in 2020 where it belongs because in 2021, there won’t be a curve to flatten, right?
- De-Escalate— Well, this one doesn’t annoy me as much because it means we’re lightening the curfews and restrictions which have been imposed on us for our safety, and it expresses the level of panic we’ve been living through. It’s like we’ve been holding our breaths for several months and are finally exhaling.
Thanks for reading my little rant. The curve is flattening somewhat in my side of the world now, so hopefully that means new adventures are on the horizon. I’m also reassessing my goals for 2020. There’s no way I’m going to let this year end without accomplishing any personal goals, and at least another 2 things from this list.
‘Til next time, ✌🏽. Stay safe guys.
I agree completely!
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Same Sis! Same! ‘Pandemic’ is also right up there. What a time we’re living in!
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Oh yes, that word is a next one I’m so tired of hearing. I hope the next half of 2020 is a polar opposite to the first.
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Our curve is not flattening, for sure, so kudos to you guys for that. I don’t have an issue with the words or with the meaning of some. I enjoy social distancing and I like quarantine.
What I don’t like is that I had to cancel my plans. My phone keeps reminding me that I should be checking into my hotel in Las Vegas right now, even though I cancelled the trip. I would have just finished driving across America for the first time and be about to buy my tiny home. That irks me. I also hate that leaving my house is an anxiety trip and the disinfecting process when I get home makes me glad I only need to do it once per week. I’m looking forward to the virus going away.
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Well that’s great.. .meanwhile I’m so tired of hearing them, the msot detested are Covid and coronavirus, but I know those words will be with us forever. It’s been 2 months of life on pause, and like you I’ve had to cancel plans I was looking forward to as well, even if they aren’t as lofty as yours were. Keep staying safe dearie! And I hope you’re not fretting away at the setback of tiny home ownership.
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Doing my best to keep safe and just spending the time saving and making better plans. Take care of yourself! ☺️
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Haha, this is a funny one Rochelle. Well, for me, I do not want to hear cases or confirmed anymore!
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Same here! Only word I want to hear now is ‘recovered’.
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Me too.
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i think we all feel the same about those phrases. i feel i was quite like you. although i got away last year it was so stressful at work. i had plans for a few nice relaxing breaks this year, I’m only hopefuly I might get one domestic in now if im lucky!
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I hope so too! That’s all I’m wishing for at this point, staycation if you will. 🙂
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Great post. I think this speaks to the way that most of us are feeling. For those of us in Spain, I would add “State of Alarm.”
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I can imagine. I hope you and your family are safe ❤
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I hear you! Agree 💯 Like you I rang in the New Year with so much hope only to find myself stuck in a small apartment pretty much all the time. Agree about having to try too, I am just trying to pass the days. This will pass eventually…
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It really sucks but we have to stay positive until it passes. That’s right. Thanks for stopping by! 🙂
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Agreed! Plus the word “Covid” in general.
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Exactly! 😭
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Yes Rochelle, good post. Those 5 words are indeed the ones no one wants to hear again. This pandemic has caused so many changes in everyone’s life and changes are still ongoing. I am sure many people out there have the same questions, when will we no longer be required to wear masks in public, when will there be no more social distancing and when will the long lines outside of business places due to social distancing become a thing of the past?
I personally don’t like the term “NEW NORMAL”. There is nothing normal about all of this. Continue to stay safe and I hope to collaborate with you at some time in the future. Keep your blog going, it is very good.
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Thanks Cary! I strongly dislike it too, along with the term social distancing. Stay safe too and yes, that would be great. 🙂
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🤔 Unfortunately, those words and phrases that you mentioned will forever be etched in the minds of everyone who lived during this time period.
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